We show you positions and breathing and relaxation techniques to help manage labor pain.

Your body produces hormones naturally to help labor to be easier and you can increase these hormones by doing the following:

  • Practice relaxation exercises: see below for a step-by-step guide.
  • Get a massage: ask your husband or the midwife to rub your lower back, which many women feel comforting especially during a contraction.
  • Take a shower or bath: you can do this if you stay at home during Early labor.
  • Get support: if you stay at home during Early labor you can have a support partner (husband, mother, mother-in-law, friend) help.
  • Change positions: lying flat on your back is not helpful, walk and change positions often if able.

Most importantly, believe in yourself! You can do it. Your body was made to do this. For centuries women have been giving birth. Don’t be afraid, it is a natural process.

Relaxation exercises

There is a range of different relaxation exercises you can practice to make labor easier.

1. Visualization

Try creating a comforting image in your mind, like the following:

  • Use your imagination in a positive way to imagine a pleasant scene or place you would like to be.
  • Visualize your cervix as a flower opening, imagine your cervix and baby opening and your baby moving downwards during each contraction.
  • Create a focal point, a picture, a person, or an imagined/remembered route e.g. stairs or walking path.

2. Vocalization

Try repeating a comforting phrase aloud (or to yourself), like the following:

  • I can, I can, I can.
  • A breath for you, A breath for me.
  • I love you, You love me.

You can also try counting aloud or to yourself.

3. Breathing techniques

Source: American Pregnancy Association, see http://americanpregnancy.org/labor-and-birth/patterned-breathing/

Slow breathing

Begin slow breathing when contractions are intense enough that you can no longer walk or talk through them without pausing.

  • Take an organizing breath—a big sigh as soon as the contraction begins. Release all tension (go limp all over—head to toe) as you breathe out.
  • Focus your attention
  • Slowly inhale through your nose and exhale through your mouth, allowing all your air to flow out with a sigh. Pause until the air seems to “want” to come in again.
  • With each exhale, focus on relaxing a different part of your body.

Light Accelerated Breathing

Most women feel the need to switch to light breathing at some time during the active phase of labor. Let the intensity of your contractions guide you in deciding if and when to use light breathing. Breathe in and out rapidly through your mouth about one breath per second. Keep your breathing shallow and light. Your inhalations should be quiet, but your exhalation clearly audible.

  • Take an organizing breath—a big sigh as soon as the contraction begins. Release all tension (go limp all over—head to toe) as you breathe out.
  • Focus your attention.
  • Inhale slowly through your nose and exhale through your mouth.  Accelerate and lighten your breathing as the contraction increases in intensity. If the contraction peaks early, then you will have to accelerate early in the contraction. It if peaks more gradually, you will work up to peak speed more slowly. Keep your mouth and shoulders relaxed.
  • As your breathing rate increases toward the peak of your contraction, breathe in and out lightly through your mouth. Keep your breathing shallow and light at a rate of about one breath per second.
  • As the contraction decreases in intensity, gradually slow your breathing rate, switching back to breathing in through your nose and out through your mouth.
  • When the contraction ends, take your finishing breath—exhale with a sigh.

Variable (Transition) Breathing

This is a variation of light breathing. It is sometimes referred to as “pant-pant-blow” or “hee-hee-who” breathing. Variable breathing combines light shallow breathing with a periodic longer or more pronounced exhalation. Variable breathing is used in the first stage if you feel overwhelmed, unable to relax, in despair, or exhausted.

  • Take an organizing breath—a big sigh as soon as the contraction begins. Release all tension (go limp all over—head to toe) as you breathe out.
  • Focus your attention on your partner or a focal point, such as a picture.
  • Breathe through your mouth in light shallow breaths at a rate of 5-20 breaths in 10 seconds, throughout the contraction.
  • After every second, third, fourth, or fifth breath, blow out a longer breath. You might try verbalizing this longer exhale with a “who or “puh.”
  • When the contraction ends take one or two deep relaxing breaths with a sigh.

Breathing To Avoid Pushing At The Wrong Time

There will be times throughout both stages of labor when you will want to push or bear down and it is not the right time. Most women want to hold their breath during these particularly difficult moments.

Avoid holding your breath by breathing in and out constantly or by raising your chin and blowing or panting. This keeps you from adding to the pushing that your body is already doing.

Expulsion Breathing

Used once the cervix is fully dilated and the second stage of labor has begun.

  • Take an organizing breath—a big sigh as soon as the contraction begins. Release all tension (go limp all over—head to toe) as you breathe out.
  • Focus on the baby moving down and out, or on another positive image.
  • Breathe slowly, letting the contraction guide you in accelerating or lightening your breathing as necessary for comfort. When you cannot resist the urge to push (when it “demands” that you join in), take a big breath, tuck chin to chest, curl your body and lean forward. Then bear down, while holding your breath or slowly releasing air by grunting, moaning or other verbalizing. Most important of all, relax the pelvic floor. Help the baby come down by releasing any tension in the perineum.
  • After 5-6 seconds, release your breath and breathe in and out.  When the urge to push takes over join in by bearing down. How hard you push is dictated by your sensation. You will continue in this way until the contraction subsides. The urge to push comes and goes in waves during the contraction. Use these breaks to breathe deeply providing oxygen to your blood & sufficient oxygen for the baby.
  • When the contraction ends, relax your body and take one or two calming breaths.
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